I’ll be the first to admit I’m not dating expert. I’m still single three years post-divorce and in my 40s. But one thing I do have is experience. And that experience seems to help others a lot more than it helps me.
Over the next few weeks, I’m going to be talking about what I call the “First Five of Dating.” These are the First Five milestones of any dating relationship. We’ll cover each one individually and in depth, but we’ll go over each one here real quick.
The First Five of Dating are the:
- First Contact
- First Date
- First Kiss
- First Sex
- First Time Saying “I Love You“
First Contact is the first time you reach out to your prospective date, whether in person or online. It sets the tone for everything else to come.
First Date is, obviously, when to set the first date, how to prepare and what to do and what not to do.
First Kiss, again, is obvious, but it’s still something we need to discuss.
First Sex is a bit more tricky than the previous three. We’ll talk about how long is appropriate to wait, how to read the signs, how to test the waters, and more. No tricks!
First Time Saying “I Love You“ is a much more delicate and patient step. It could take weeks, maybe months, but we’ll discuss when it’s appropriate and also how to read the signs so you don’t scare your date off.
While putting this together, I had debated – and even had it recommended – that I also include the “First Fight” in this list. But I want to keep this positive. Developing a strong relationship should be based on positives. Yes, there are going to be disagreements, there always are. But that doesn’t belong here. Maybe I’ll address the “First Fight” on it’s own another time.
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